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Some U.S. women are being asked to prepay for their baby

In the United States, maternity care costs are creating unexpected financial stress for many pregnant women. Imagine being asked to pay hundreds—or even thousands—of dollars for your baby’s delivery before it’s even born. This growing trend, while legal, has sparked debates over its ethical implications.


The Unexpected Bill: A Shocking Experience

In April, Kathleen Clark, 39, visited her OB-GYN for her second prenatal appointment. During that visit, she was unexpectedly asked to pay $960. This wasn’t a co-pay or a post-insurance bill—it was an estimate for the total cost of her maternity care.

“I was shocked,” Clark said. Traditionally, patients receive their final bill only after the baby is delivered and the insurance company processes the claim. For Clark, this early demand came during an already emotional time; she had recently lost her mother.

Caught off guard, Clark paid the fee. “You’re standing there at the window, and there’s people all around, and you’re trying to be really nice,” she recalled tearfully.

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Prepaying for Delivery: A Growing Trend

Clark’s experience isn’t unique. Many pregnant women report being asked to prepay for their care. Discussions on online baby message boards highlight the prevalence of this practice. While it is legal, advocacy groups argue that it’s unethical.

Caitlin Donovan, a senior director at the Patient Advocate Foundation, criticized the approach, saying it feels like providers are “holding their treatment hostage.”


Why Are Providers Asking for Upfront Payments?

Medical billing and women’s health experts point to the high cost of maternity care and the way it’s billed in the U.S. as reasons for this trend. Since the 1990s, OB-GYNs have used a bundled billing method. This means that all maternity care—prenatal visits, labor, delivery, and postpartum care—is filed under a single insurance claim.

While this system simplifies billing, it also delays payments to providers. Some argue that prepayments help ensure compensation for services rendered, especially if patients switch providers or fail to pay post-delivery.

Pamela Boatner, a midwife in Georgia, sympathized with both sides. “You have people who, unfortunately, are not getting paid for the work that they do,” she said.


The Financial Burden of Pregnancy

Pregnancy and childbirth are expensive in the U.S. According to the Peterson-KFF Health System Tracker, individuals with employer-sponsored insurance pay an average of $3,000 out-of-pocket for maternity care. High-deductible insurance plans exacerbate the problem, leaving families to shoulder larger upfront costs.

Joy Burkhard, CEO of the Policy Center for Maternal Mental Health, described prepayment as “another gut punch” for families already struggling financially.


Risks of Prepayment: Anxiety, Miscarriages, and More

The practice of prepayment has far-reaching consequences.

  • Emotional Stress: Unexpected bills during pregnancy can heighten anxiety.
  • Overestimates: Prepayment amounts are often higher than final bills, leading to lengthy refund processes.
  • Limited Options: Women who’ve prepaid may feel trapped with a provider, even if they’re unhappy with the care.

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How to Navigate Prepayment Requests

The Affordable Care Act requires insurers to cover many prenatal services, but it doesn’t regulate when providers can request payments. Patients like Clark have found ways to advocate for themselves, including negotiating refunds after meeting their deductibles.

Insurance experts recommend:

  • Consulting Your Insurer: Ask if prepayment is mandatory.
  • Establishing Care First: Secure your spot with a provider before declining to prepay.

A Call for Change

Health policy researchers and advocates say that regulating prepayment practices would be challenging. Medical lobbying groups are powerful, and contracts between insurers and providers are confidential.

For now, patients are left to navigate the murky waters of medical billing on their own. As Clark reflected on her experience, she expressed frustration over the added stress. “Why am I having to pay the price as a patient?” she asked.


The trend of prepaying for maternity care raises important questions about ethics and accessibility in the U.S. health care system. For many families, the financial stress can overshadow the joy of pregnancy.

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